Tuesday 29 January 2013

Malayalam Poem - Kochunakshatram - G. Sankara Kurup

Have been searching all over the net for this neat little poem, but couldn't find it so far. So here it is...


Kochunakshatram - G. Sanakara Kurup


Kochunakshatrame ninne aara, machiliruthyath ammayaano?
Vallathum thatti marichuvo nee? vallathe vaashi pidichuvo nee?
Amma kayarkuvaan enthumoolam? nammal kaanickanam nalla sheelam.
Thaazhekku poruvaan mohamille? veezhaathe chaaduvaan pattukille?
Pokkamillatha njaan kaikal pokki, nilkukayallathe enthu cheyyum?



കൊച്ചു നക്ഷത്രമേ നിന്നെ ആരാ, മച്ചില്‍ ഇരുതിയതമ്മയാണോ?
വല്ലതും തട്ടി മറിച്ചുവോ നീ, വല്ലാതെ വാശി പിടിച്ചുവോ നീ ?
അമ്മ കയര്‍ക്കുവാന്‍ എന്തുമൂലം? നമ്മള്‍ കാണിക്കണം നല്ല ശീലം.
താഴേക്കു പോരുവാന്‍ മോഹമില്ലേ? വീഴാതെ ചാടുവാന്‍ പറ്റുകില്ലേ ?
പൊക്കമില്ലാത്ത ഞാന്‍ കൈകള്‍ പൊക്കി, നില്‍ക്കുകയല്ലാതെ എന്തുചെയ്യും?


Sweet little poem, isn't it?


Thursday 24 January 2013

Neethisaaram - Part 2

... continued

3. Money = Misery 

To first make money and then to keep it secure, one experiences many hardships. There is anguish in both earning and in spending money. Money is indeed the source of much misery.

Does this mean that one should give up all attempt to earn money? In today's world, surely that's impractical. I would prefer to look at it more pragmatically. Let us see how we can tweak it...

Earning money:
A person should identify a career he/she is passionate about. Now that the job is not WORK anymore - it follows that earning money is no longer a source of misery.

Saving money:
We shall take this up first, because, financial wisdom says that we must first save and then spend. Again there are two questions - How much to save? How to save? 
  • It is entirely up to the individual to determine what percentage of the earned money is to be saved. An off-the-cuff number is, I believe, minimum 10% of the income. 
  • The second question is also highly personal. Depending on the individual risk profile, one may invest in bonds, fixed deposits, mutual funds, stocks, commodities, real estate... the list is endless. To elimate any confusion, it is better to pre-determine the allocation - say, 50% in fixed deposits, 25% in mutual funds, 20% in stocks and 5% in commodities. 
The trick is to stick to the pre-determined plan and not to distress over it every payday. Revisit the plan once a year and make adjustments.

Spending money:
It is very simple now. One spends whatever is left over after the mandatory savings are done. But what shall we spend on? One ought to dispense in order of decreasing priorities.
  • The unavoidable essentials come first - groceries, toilette, repair works...
  • Followed by the memory-makers - these are those things which leave behind lingering memories for you to savor throughout your life; a family outing or a tete-a-tete with your spouse...
  • Lastly your personal indulgences - everyone has their own luxuries - anything that makes you feel pampered. 
There! Now money need no longer be a harbinger of misery!






You can find a copy of Neethisaaram here at http://en.sreyas.in/malayalam-spiritual-ebooks-download. Be warned, the text is in Malayalam though.


Thursday 17 January 2013

Neethisaaram - Part 1

I happened to come across a little book titled "Neethisaaram". A collection of old world wisdom, code of conduct. Many passages appeared to be very much in tune with our times, too, considering that this was written ages back. I'd like to discuss some interesting tidbits from this book here.


1. Think before you act


Ok, so this is a simplified translation. The text actually says that:

One should study every situation properly before acting. Else one may have to regret it later like the brahmini who killed the mongoose.

The story is interesting.

There was a Brahmin family - a husband, wife and a little baby. One day, the brahmin saved a mongoose and brought him home as a pet. The wife was angry that the husband brought home a wild animal. However, the mongoose stayed put at their house and used to play often with the little boy.

One day, the wife had gone to fill water pots and when she returned, she found the mongoose all excited with blood on this mouth. She heard her baby crying and ran inside to find blood on the baby too. By then the mongoose had also come in and was chattering around her. In her anger, she threw the pot at the mongoose screaming curses at it for harming her little one. The pot was thrown rather heavily and the mongoose was instantly killed.

The flustered mother ran to her baby and picked it up only to find that the baby was perfectly fine. However, just beside the baby was a large snake lying dead, bitten to death by the very mongoose she had just killed.

Seeing that the brave mongoose had fought and overcome the snake to save her baby, she was filled with remorse for her actions.

So let's think, shall we? And look, shall we, before we leap?


2. As you sow, so shall you reap


The text says:

Whatever deeds one has performed, good or bad, one shall certainly reap its results. Even if a hundred thousand aeons shall pass, the deed-results shall not go un-experienced. 

Indeed, the idea that you shall one day be repaid in kind, is what maintains the integrity of humankind. Age-old wisdom, repeated in different forms for centuries before and surely will be reproduced for many centuries to come. It keeps the moral fiber of the society intact.

And many a time, it turns out to be true. In the Phantom comic books, there is an old phantom-saying, "He who lives by the sword, shall die by the sword". We see the proof all around us; goons and goondas regularly meet their grotesque ends at the hands of their enemies or sometimes, their own trusted friends.

We also see real-life examples where a person does a kindly deed out of compassion and one day, that action is returned manifold. Consider the true story of Dr. Howard Kelly. As a young boy from a poor family, he was hungry and asked for a glass of water from a nearby house. The lady, however, seeing that he was hungry, brought him one glass of milk. Years later, the little boy grew up to become a famous physician and the same woman who gave him the glass of milk, was seriously ill. Dr. Howard Kelly gave himself to her care and when she recovered, the bill was presented to her. Written across the bill were the words: "Paid in full with one glass of milk". A true story that tells us that life always comes full circle.

Rejoice!!! Beware!!! ...deed-results shall not go un-experienced...






You can find a copy of Neethisaaram here at http://en.sreyas.in/malayalam-spiritual-ebooks-download. Be warned, the text is in Malayalam though.
There are many versions of the mongoose tale. You can find one at http://www.culturalindia.net/indian-folktales/panchatantra-tales/mongoose-brahmins-wife.html
The Dr. Howard Kelly story is here at http://www.truthorfiction.com/rumors/o/oneglassofmilk.htm.


Friday 4 January 2013

This too shall pass...

Here's a short fable mentioned by Abraham Lincoln in one of his famous speeches:

An Eastern monarch charged his wise men to invent a sentence to be ever in view and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations. They presented him the words: "And this, too, shall pass away!". How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction!

The lines - this too shall pass - have often consoled me during trying times. Repeating it to myself over and over again has brought out the strengths hidden somewhere deep within myself.

So too has it helped me to tide over what I perceived as overwhelming successes. And indeed, many of the occasions where I have puffed over in pride have unfailingly led to a deflated ego before long.

In the same vein is a fragment of a poem by Shankar Shailendra - an unparalleled comfort during dark times:

ये ग़म के और चार दिन, सितम के और चार दिन, 
ये दिन भी जायेंगे गुज़र, गुज़र गए हज़ार दिन।
कभी तो होगी इस चमन पे भी बहार की नजर,
अगर कहीं है स्वर्ग तो उतार ला ज़मीन पर।

Four more days of grief, four more days of torture;
they shall pass, like a thousand days have before them.
Some day Spring shall beam down on this garden too,
If there are heavens somewhere, bring them down to the earth...

The thought 'This too shall pass' can surely make turbulent communities more of a paradise...



Refer http://showcase.netins.net/web/creative/lincoln/speeches/fair.htm for the entire speech by Abraham Lincoln.
Refer http://aidindia.org/main/content/view/872/373/ for the entire poem - Tu Zinda hai.


Tuesday 1 January 2013

New Year Surprise!!! - Flylady Motto for 2013

I was pleasantly surprised to read the Flylady's motto for the new year:
Words can be kind or mean; the choice is yours in 2013!

It was so very reminiscent of my own thoughts at the beginning of this year. What can words mean...
  • For the listener - Mean words unspoken
Words do indeed have immense power. They can make or break relationships. Words spoken in anger are the acknowledged nemesis of all happy relations. They may be reluctantly forgiven, but will almost never be forgotten.
  • For the listener - Kind words verbalized
Incidentally, sometimes words left unsaid may also mar relationships. The right words at the right time - that's the hallmark of all appealing personalities. To be able to say the proper words of understanding to the distressed, the apt words of encouragement to the disheartened, the right words of guidance to the naive - that is what sets apart a radiant character from the multitudes.
  • For You - Positive words envisaged
Your personality is after all what others perceive of your character. And just as your personality is affected by your words and deeds, so are your own feelings and attitudes. Thinking and saying positive words will naturally give a boost to your emotions.


And the best part is - the CHOICE is YOURS to make!!! In the words of Viktor E. Frankl, "Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response,  lies our growth and freedom."

Make your choice intelligently with a relaxed mindset. It is ideal to avoid reacting to stimuli, embrace the process of responding levelheaded-ly after the ...space...


I conclude with a quote from an unconfirmed ancient eastern source -
Watch your thoughts; they become your words...
Watch your words; they become your actions...
Watch your actions; they become your habits...
Watch your habits; they become your character...
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Couldn't have said it any better!!


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